Monday, May 12, 2008


Size zero and all that jazz

Am I the only one deeply uncomfortable with the current glorification of Kareena Kapoor’s starving body? Not a day goes by without our being confronted with yet another picture of Kareena in itsy-bitsy shorts and skimpy top or a swimsuit, ribs protruding on her painfully thin body, her skinny legs jutting out at decidedly odd angles, lips puckered in what is clearly meant to be a sexy pout. It is ironic that at a time when the international look is veering away from the skinny, unreal, androgynous female figure towards real women, India should have embraced the waif-thin look. But then, that’s hardly surprising – its aspirations to the status of world leader notwithstanding, India has always lagged at least a decade behind the West, particularly in matters relating to culture and fashion.

Kareena has supposedly looked to the likes of Victoria Beckham and Kate Moss for her ‘look’ in Tashan. Again, ironic, considering that Kate Moss has left her waif-thin days behind, and Victoria Beckham was recently in the news, protesting that it was her natural body structure, and not anorexia, that kept her thin, after she was accused of being a bad role model for young girls. It’s another matter that Kareena Kapoor, a strapping Punjabi girl, lacks the delicate frame and petite structure of either a Kate Moss or a Victoria Beckham to pull off the waif look – what is more distressing is that her attempts at coming down to a size zero are being lauded and held up as the greatest achievement ever. Kareena supposedly combined a yoga regimen with a special diet to bring her weight down from 60 to 49 kilos – which basically means that at this moment, her BMI (body mass index) is way lower than is supposed to be for someone of her height, and that clinically, she would be termed underweight. In a country – in a world, rather – where girls and young women are being constantly bombarded with messages from every possible medium telling them they are overweight and ugly, that dissatisfaction with their bodies and aspirations towards an unreal, socially constructed, deeply sexist body form is desirable, do we need our already flawed self-images reinforced by gushing reports of how good Kareena looks now that her clavicles and rib cage stick out a mile? For most women who do not have access to fancy diets or expensive yoga trainers, what choice do they have except starve themselves or join gyms, where they exercise till they drop and then starve themselves in between workouts so they, too, can get boyfriends who will tell them they ‘have never looked so good’?

We live in a rather peculiar country, I think. We have no dearth of teachers, academics, social workers, intellectuals, musicians, writers – and yet, when we look for role models, we invariably end up choosing people from either of two categories – cricketers, or people from the glamour industry, most notably film stars. The latter, inhabitants of Bollywood, the Hindi film fraternity, are made up almost exclusively of ex-beauty queens who don’t quite know what to do with themselves, or sons and daughters of former stars, for none of whom an actual ability to act appears to be a criterion to qualify as an actor/actress. It’s sad, then, that these people, while lapping up the adulation, should have absolutely no social responsibility, no awareness that their every action is being followed and emulated by impressionable young Indians. And what of the media? We get to read plenty of articles about eating disorders in all our leading dailies, so why is it that no one has seen fit to point out that Kareena’s actions, far from being laudable, are highly irresponsible, and detrimental not just to her health and well-being, but to countless others who will now look upon her as their ideal? Come to think of it, what of those poor young men who are, even as I type, killing themselves in gyms trying to get the washboard abs that Shah Rukh Khan immortalised in Om Shanti Om? K, himself health conscious and a regular gym goer, tells me that he and his gym buddies are rather bemused at this current craze for a six-pack – you can get them in three months, yes, but short of killing yourself with regular doses of fat-burners and steroids, it’s virtually impossible to sustain it. Tell that to the media, which is hailing Shah Rukh as the new Adonis, or the men who think getting a six-pack is probably more important than a college degree.

Having been through the fat, insecure teenage phase myself, the after-effects of which continue to haunt me, my heart goes out to all the girls – and boys – who are probably staring at themselves unhappily in the mirror, hating the way they look and, by extension, everything about themselves. Meanwhile, Kareena Kapoor continues to preen and pout from every newspaper and magazine cover – Tashan's dismal failure at the box office notwithstanding.

PS – And just a couple of weeks ago I read a report in the newspapers that said that the French government is all set to put a law in place that will make pushing anorexia, size zero, etc., as a lifestyle choice a criminal offence. This law will be primarily geared towards the fashion and glamour industry, which is seriously jeopardising the health of countless young French girls with its emphasis on being – and staying - thin. Go figure.

5 comments:

Shilpi said...

Hey Pots,
This is a deeply distressing post. Meets my glum mood quite well. I didn't realise that it was that bad at home. I knew we were getting there - but I guess five years of living away have just made me think that "these things haven't hit as yet", just as I had imagined that we wouldn't have school shootings ever (whatever else we might or might not have). The "anorexic" look would hit I knew...but I had just hoped that "maybe, just maybe it might not hit that hard."

It's heartening to know that the French are at least dealing with some matters in a no-nonsense way. Yet I'm sceptical. How will they 'prove' that the media is selling anorexia as a lifestyle choice?
And what about individual “thinking” then? Why indeed shouldn’t the individual “think” for him/herself?! And indeed if we don’t want to think for ourselves – how far is the government (any government) going to think for us!
Also I didn't know that the international look is veering away from the skinny look...I thought the "thin" was still "in".

It is rather bizarre isn't it that we always look towards cricket stars and Bollywood stars when searching for role models? That one made me laugh a wry laugh.

The other glum thing in relation to the body and health and fitness is the fast-food industry that's growing all over in India. McDonalds and god-knows-what-else. So in another some years we'll also have obesity related health issues along with anorexia (if we don't already. I'm quite sure that we've got more obese individuals now than we did 15 years ago...)

And the thing that I see here in the U.S is this strange straddling on the fence where the obese are calling the thin people names, and are furiously telling others that there is nothing wrong in being “fat”, while the anorexic and the bulimic are looking for sympathy from wherever they can get it (and the “famously” anorexic folks are posing in magazines), and the world swings around the sun, with the social constructionists among the academic circles having fun times “yapping” about body image…while people are dying and being killed and being maimed, and wars rage, and human beings go hungry and cold, and babies are being bartered and quartered, and our environment is being plundered!

I don’t know whether there is any hope left in a world where people will believe whatever they are told. The only hope is for people to think for themselves. That really is the only hope….As much as I would like to point fingers at the media – I cannot entirely blame the media. Whatever happened to individual choice? Personal choice? Thinking for one’s self? Today the media. Yesterday, The U.S. Day before that, it was The British. Millennia ago it was The Mughals. And before and after that – there was always Someone or Something else. But there always will be. As Shaw’s Joan says, “What other judgment can I judge by, but my own?” – And this indeed should be the only lens through which we look at the world. The only means that I can think of is true education, which teaches human beings to think for themselves…

On a funnier note, I find it very hard to believe Pots – that you of all people went through the “fat” and “insecure” teenage phase! Personally, folks around me never stopped telling me how “fat” I was – the funny thing is that I never really believed them!

Thanks a ton for putting up a post Pots.
Take care.
Shilpi

A very cool cat said...

Thanks for that thoughtful comment, Shilpi. The thin look has been 'in' in India for a very long time - but it has received a new lease of time in the last 5-6 years, with the proliferation of the glamour industry. Every young girl these days wants to be a model or an actress - and you wouldn't the number of beauty paegants there are, even in Kolkata! Yet - and you're so right - there is, at the same time, an expansion of the fast food industry, and people are gobbling down yucky KFC and McDonalds stuff like there's no tomorrow. Which is probably why every second kid I see around these days is overweight.

I agree with you when you talk about free thought and individual choice - but are these individuals who're choosing to starve themselves because some tacky Hindi movie says it's cool really making a free, informed choice? More often than not, they're just following pre-determined notions of beauty, while convincing themselves and people around that they're doing so because 'they want to'.

And nobody believes me, but I was once a plump teenager, and my already rocky self-confidence was irrevocably eroded by nasty cousins and their nastier jibes. Family and close friends can vouch for my obsession with my weight!

ambrosia said...

Indeed, cricketers and film stars are role models of many in this country. Unfortunately, they know it themselves but they do not have the sensitivity or the brains to utilize their fame for positive change in society. This is the "age of the Kali" marked by overwhelming imperfections in society. You can guess I have been reading William Dalrymple.... I wish Kareena Kapoor can read your post.... from where she is today, she has the choice to refuse such roles! I also feel sorry for the likes of Shahrukh Khan who has poured crores into an over-hyped game. Surely, the limitations of his mind could'nt think of anything more useful to do with his massive wealth!

A very cool cat said...

Hey Ambrosia - first, welcome back! I really missed you. And no, the problem with our so-called 'role models' is that they're none of them what you might call educated - a lot of them aren't even graduates. Funny role models for a country that prides itself on its educational achievements! Given that scenario, how do you expect them to even understand what social responsibility means? But you know something - Shah Rukh is actually the most intelligent and genuine of the lot. Or that's how he comes across. You're right, wish he'd chosen something more worthwhile to drown his money in.

The best of the lot is Soha Ali Khan. If only her brother had her brains and dignity!

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